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Sunday, June 20, 2010

I miss my Daddy.

*So,
this post was a draft...it has been a draft for a while now...i was waiting for the perfect time( lie! i was just too lazy to finish it up). I didnt even know it was Fathers' Day today ^_^...but since I'm here...I guess now's as good a time as any.

I miss my Daddy
I miss those days when i would sit on his feet, and he'd swing me up and down and I'd be screaming in joy.
I miss the stories he used to tell my siblings and I...you know, about how the tortoise became bald now...all those olden days stories
I miss when we'd just all of us gather round, and gist, and he'd be there cracking dryly funny jokes. I miss when we'd sit out on the porch, and my dad would tell stories and punctuate them with rather smelly farts, an he'd say 'Don't worry, we're outside, it won't really smell'' lol

what I don't however miss, is watching a Nigerian movie with my dad.  Shett, if we ever meet in this life, and you ever visit me...or just come across my dada, and he says 'let's watch a movie''...let me give you a little advise.
Run.
Run Fast.
'Nuff said.

Don't say I didn't warn you.

#sigh
i miss my dad.
I miss my dad.
I miss him truly.

I remember the first time i saw him kiss my mom. I was like 'Ewwwww Daddy IYANMAAAA!''.
He laughed at first, and said 'Wait till you get your own husband'. I was fascinated. I asked him all sorts of questions.
'daddy why did you do that?'
'daddy is it sweet?'
'daddy did mommy like it?'
'daddy you swallowed her spittt''
'daddy iyanma...''
and so on.
I think I grossed the poor man out. He never kissed her in front of me again...ok not until i was about 14.

Sooo i totally talk too much.
I was just going to pop in, say Happy Fathers' Day to my dadda( on my blog, which he doesn't know about), and pop out again. Guess I just got carried away. I liked it though. Made me think about the past.

But somewhere along the line, my Dad and I stopped being so close...I think it was somewhere between puberty and late office hours.

We kind of got a little closer again on our trip to Abuja in 2008...

Ah but that's me and my Dad. On today, off tomorrow. Hopefully when I get back home this summer, we'll get a little closer.

#deardad i miss you. you dont know it, i might never tell you, but i do.


He is not the world's greatest dad.
But he is a great one.


My Finals were fine, thanks for asking.
It rained today. hmmph. annoying, i tell ya.
Well. That is all, I guess.

Yours-in-Fathers'dayness.
The busy brains :D


P.s: i didn't proof-read, so please bear with any 'gbagauns' shells wrong use of language you might encounter.

5 CerebrallyEndowed views:

miss.fab said...

Aww such a nice post. Lol at your questions when you saw him kiss your mum. What does he do during movies?

CerebrallyBusy said...

thanks b

he'd ask for every little thing anyone does/did.

Like if someone sits down, he'd ask 'did she sit? did she just sit??''

and im like 'honestly dad!' lol

Myne Whitman said...

Awww, you make me miss my Dad too. Sometimes it's just those little things.

Like how my dad shares out his meat to us sometimes. And then when I'm singled out for the favor, just because...

Have a lovely week dear. Take care...

Vanity said...

aaaaawwww this is sooo cute. I wish I had had those days

http://www.somepeoplehaverealproblems-vanity.blogspot.com/

CerebrallyBusy said...

@Myne : aww :) i like your dad already

@vanity: thanks babe :)